PELAJARAN KEPRIBADIAN 1
Oh, well I gave the number 1 up there since this is the
first time I write about the personality lesson.
This lesson is derived from my own experiences. Huauauauuaua….
That is something that embarrassed me so much in life. BUT I get the lesson ehmm…
well, somehow I just believe that I will get luck in another place another opportunity..
There’s always an opportunity for those who believe.
Right, that is for the prolog, now here is the lesson:
1.
Look into
your hearer’s eyes. OMG. Somebody said like this to me once, “My mom said
if you speak to someone who doesn’t want to see your eyes that means he/she is
a liar” Crap!! I was not a liar, I was just shy…. Coz I liked him so much so
looking at him would kill me softly. And…… so I was wrong. If you don’t see
your speaker or hearer eyes you are a liar! That’s It!!!
Another case, when I went to a private
school, I was intended to enter my smart
and beautiful daughter there to be one of the student. Unfortunately, after I
talked to the headmaster for quite long time, He GAVE ME THE LESSON about looking
at your hearer’s eyes. He said that he was so sure that I had a personality and
psychology problem in me. WHATTTT??????? Yes, he said so… Ck..ck..ck…. So,
again, look into your hearer’s eyes when you talk to them.
2.
Smile a
lot. Yes darling… smile … just smile… coz you look prettier when you smile.
Let see, I read something on AURA tabloid, it
stated if you pretend to be happy by of
course show it in your face, then the happiness does come. I do believe
that. So just smile…
Here, I am a shy woman. I can not (EVEN)
identify my personality in the age of 30 (Hmmm… It seemed that the head monster,
ups headmaster said something right about me, but psssttt, I just do not want
to confess that) so back to shy, I am a shy woman and clumsy and awkward but by
smiling I find it easier for me to socialize. Really, I am saying the truth..
trust me…
3. Look into your hearer’s eyes and smile.
4.
Greet
people more and more and be nice to everyone. So once while I was waiting for my interview
in a hotel, an old guy and looked so ‘something’ I mean flirtatious sat next to me, so closed to me and asked me so
many questions. Hi… what is your name and bla bla bla. For some beginning
questions, I answered but not for the rest, I turned my face to other
direction. Huhhh… I was kind of… someone
who didn’t want to spend my time, to waste my time for talking something
whatttt to someone like that. That’s the point. Unfortunately, the old man
showed up in the interview. He told my interviewer of what had happened with us
outside and especially the way I treated him… and you can guess the rest of the
tragedy, I failed. So… here’s the case… I should have been so nice with anyone.
I should have greeted anyone I met especially in the office that I wanted to
work… so just greet people more and be nice.
Here, in my new place of work I greet
people nicely every time I saw them; security , office boy or girl, and the
manager of course hehe.. and I found it is so helpful that everytime you need
any help, they are there for you.. so, yes! It’s about the benefit for you. So just
do it.
5. Be sympathy.
Remember when I said I was clumsy and
awkward? Well I am now still like that. So, this is the newest. When my advisor
talk a lot about her sad sad story, you know what I did??????? I just kept
silent huauaauhauhauahua…. How bad am I huhauhaauhauhauah… I should have said
something…. Hiks… I know the theory but I forgot to apply. I should have said “I
am sorry to hear that, be tough and etc….” huahahahauahuahuahuahaa
A long long time ago, when I was with
someone that I fall in love for the first time, He was a story teller, he
talked to me everything about his life and everthing. And you can guess what I
did… NOTHING! And even worst, I showed my disagreement, that I hate it, that I
felt jealous for many things he did. I
should have LISTENED, touched his hands and said something to make peace and
love huahauhauhauhuuhuhuhu…. Bad me, was n’t I?
And another long long time ago again, longer actually, in
high school, I had a best friend. Ohhh NO. Close friend, that’s it! She was
close to me and she was so sneaky. I could not stand she treated my boy friends
(I mean friend) so badly so I asked him
to left her OuuChhhhhhhhh I SHOULD NOT HAD BEEN SO HEROIC now she hates me. Full
stop.
So, the point is do not be a hero, just be
yourself.
When you hear something sad, be symphaty.
When you hear something good, congrats
him/her
When you hear something sneaky, just say,
are you sure with that? And do nothing
Just be simple.
6. Listen more.
7.
When you
talk to someone try not to look your right hand, and be over reacting or they
will think you are a liar. Hiks.
